Gay Fisting
101: Anal Fisting for Beginners
published OCTOBER 6, 2021
https://adamstoybox.com/blogs/sex-toys/gay-fisting-101-anal-fisting-for-beginners
You might find it surprising, but fisting is a very popular act and one of the most extreme
kinks out there. If you're into kinks, this one might be the best sex
experience you've ever had in your life: a direct ride to orgasm. However, if
it's not done properly, there's a big possibility it can be something you'll
want to forget.
Suppose you're interested in getting into this
hot and kinky practice. In that case, we're here to tell you all you need to
know so you can perform it right and enjoy it as you've never imagined it. This
is Gay Fisting 101, and the first lesson of anal Fisting for beginners; Shall
we begin?
What Is Fisting?
Anal Fisting is commonly referred to as Gay
Fisting, but this practice can also be performed on people with vaginas. It
might be such an extreme kink, but there's a very small possibility that you've
never heard about Fisting.
If you don't know what it is: Fisting,
handballing, brachioproctic insertion, or brachiovaginal all mean the same
thing, and in simple terms, it is a sexual act that involves the insertion of a
hand into a vagina or rectum. This one is a practice that can be done alone or
with someone, but it's mostly practiced with a partner.
Where does Fisting come from?
Fisting is commonly attributed to gay men's
culture, thanks to its popularity in kink clubs and sex clubs during the '70s
and '80s. But it can be way older than that; maybe it can date back thousands
of years, according to sex educator Robert Morgan Lawrence.
Just think that the very essence of sexual
pleasure is strongly tied to Fisting. So if our proud ancestors (or gaycestors)
discovered how amazing it felt to have a dick up the ass, it's easy to imagine
that they found the marvels of anal Fisting too.
Why would someone
like to have a fist up their ass?
Fisting is a surprisingly prevalent practice,
right? So, why are so many people doing it? Well, because in terms of sexual
pleasure, very few acts can compare to the intense sensations you can get from
Fisting. There are a few advantages to this practice:
1.
It's been described as the borderline orgasm act.
2.
There's no other option out there to get that feeling of
fullness.
3.
If done right, there are very few chances of contracting
sexually transmitted illnesses between the people involved, unlike some other
sexual practices.
4.
It is so intense that orgasm is guaranteed.
5.
It comes with minimal risk of getting an infection (if
performed correctly).
How can you perform a
Fisting session the best way?
Fisting might not seem like a very complex
thing to do: just put your hand into the ass of a guy. However, it's so much
more than that. Fisting requires preparation, supplies, and the proper
techniques to be as pleasurable as possible and avoid any injuries in the
process.
Fisting is an extreme activity that is not for
everybody, and it needs to be performed with extreme caution.
Supplies (get all that you need
before getting started):
There are a few items you need to have in hand
before you get into this exciting practice:
1.
Lube: There are several
kinds and brands of lube out there, but for Fisting,
we recommend oil-based or silicone-based lube. You'll need a lube
that is thicker and that lasts longer, so it works the best. A runny lube,
like water-based products, will require you to
re-apply constantly and make it tedious to kill the mood.
2.
Latex Gloves: Using disposable gloves is highly recommended to make
things easier and cleaner and to avoid internal injuries; you still need to
trim your nails. Gloves get much slicker and smoother than wet skin; just avoid
using gloves with textures and powder, as they can cause friction and irritation.
If you have a latex allergy, you can use nitrile gloves.
3.
Sex toys: Sex toys can make the
whole preparation process more manageable and, let's say it, more fun. Butt plugs are the most suggestable
option, as they can help you stretch up, or you can get yourself an anal
exercising training kit
Cleaning (make it squeaky clean):
Sexual hygiene standards need to be upheld to
the utmost level when it comes to preparing for Fisting. Get your ass cleaned
up as well as your hands (or your partner's hands). Even if you'll be using
gloves, use water and soap to wash your hands, but rinse them very well to
remove any risk of causing an inner irritation. We recommend you douche your
ass to make sure your insides are completely clean before you start.
Preparation (stretch that ass):
If preparing your ass for a big dick is hard
work, preparing it for a fist (or arm) requires even more of you. The best way
to stretch your ass is using sex toys since using hands from the start can be a
little uncomfortable, and it might take some time.
Butt plugs might be the best option,
especially with a training kit. You can start with a small one and graduate in
size to the bigger one until you feel your ass is relaxed and elastic.
You can now begin to check how many fingers you
can comfortably fit: When you can put all five fingers in, then it's time to
start fisting.
Preparation is the most essential part of the
process, but it might not be the most fun part, so make it enjoyable. Add
things that can make this part the hottest; watch porn, include kisses and
caresses, anything that can make you enjoy the process until you're ready.
(Tom of Finland Fisting Formula)
Fisting Do's and
Don'ts
Once you reach the actual moment of Fisting,
there are a few things you need to keep in mind so it can continue to be the
most exciting sexperience.
- Do lubricate both hands and ass and use enough lube.
- Don't use knock-off lubricants
that can cause medical problems.
- Do it with extreme care so you can avoid any injury or
difficulty.
- Don't rush it, or it'll make it
uneasy and quite painful.
- Do go slow, especially at the beginning. The slower, the
better.
- Don't overstretch your fingers
once your hand is entirely inside the rectum, or it can hurt your partner
or yourself.
- Do constantly communicate during the whole act so
everyone can know what the other is feeling or if there's any pain.
- Don't feel bad if it's not
pleasurable the first time. Even if you do everything right, it might hurt
as you start, but it'll become a very hot practice once you get used to
it.
- Do wear a condom if you'll have penetrative sex
afterward.
- Don't wear any rings when fisting
someone.
The best techniques
for Fisting
As we said before, Fisting is not only putting
a hand into an ass; it requires you to do it with the correct cautions and
using the proper techniques. Here are some methods you can use:
1.
The "silent duck" or "duck-billing" is
one of the most commonly used techniques, as it can be the least
"extreme". In this technique, the one doing the Fisting shapes his
hand to resemble a duck's beak. All five fingers are kept straight and held as
close together as possible. So, when you can put all five fingers into the
asshole, the next thing to do is slowly keep pushing while maintaining that
position until the hand (or the arm) is in.
2.
"Punching" or "punchfisting" is a more
vigorous technique in which a clenched fist will be thrust (in-and-out motion)
into the anus. This should be done very slowly.
3.
Another variant is making the hand as the letter T in the
American Sign Language. Place the thumb between the index and middle fingers.
This one became very popular during the '90s.
4.
For more experienced men, there's the possibility of doing
double-fisting. For this, you should use "the bellows" or "side
prayer" technique, in which you place both palms together (as in a prayer)
but rotate it 90°. When doing this, pleasure comes more from being stretched
than the motion.
What's after Fisting?
So, you did it; you got fisted and got a
fantastic orgasm (or several of them). What's next?
After all the amazing sensations of this
experience passed, the next step is to clean up. Both hands and anus need to be
cleaned, especially the hands. You want to remove any bacteria and lube as soon
as possible. If you used gloves, this part would be easier, as you basically
just need to take them off and dispose of them, but still wash your hands.
Take some time to reflect on what happened. Was
it good? Was it what you expected? Was it better or worse? Would you do it
again? The best part of sex is experimenting and getting to know what really
turns you on and how you can make those experiences even better.
Enjoying Fisting like
a pro!
Fisting is an extreme sex act. It needs to be
adequately performed to be actually as hot and as pleasurable as possible. Do
not take it lightly when following these tips, but remember to enjoy it as you
get to know your body better.
Have fun!
PUBLISHED OCTOBER 6, 2021
https://adamstoybox.com/blogs/sex-toys/gay-fisting-101-anal-fisting-for-beginners
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